Dude !! It’s Claude

Social Phobia World

Well to be honest nu m-am astept sa existe un astfel de site , special pentru cei ca mine insa sincer sa fiu avand in vedere ca sunt roman iar pe site numai romani nu sunt , nu simt ca ma va ajuta foarte mult insa cu putin noroc poate ma va ajuta … macar putin . Yeah , e e vorba despre un site legat de fobia sociala si ma rog au mai multe chestii printre care si un forum , o galerie foto s.a . Pot spune ca sunt membru de maxim jumate de ora si deja am dat de cativa tipi care sunt exact ca mine si m-am gandit sa dau un mic copy-paste la un tip care e exact ca mine doar ca varianta londoneza (tipul e din Anglia)

Okay so I’m 18 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I’m not ugly, I’m actually think I’m a pretty decent looking guy if a bit on the skinny side. But the problem is that I have a hard time initiating the conversation with girls that I think are pretty. So nothing ever gets started. I don’t know any girls that I like talk to on a daily basis so it’s not like I can even start a relationship since they don’t know me well enough.

What can I do? It seems like girls want to talk with me sometimes but they want me to make the move….They give me stares and stuff but I usually don’t do anything lol. I swear this really pretty girl was giving me looks. She was staring at me and **** and looked as if she was interested but I didn’t do anything, I dont know what it is, it seems like that piece of my brain is missing or something, the part that would instinctively know what to say to a girl, when I was growing up through school I never talked to any girls unless they asked me a question and always prefered doing boys stuff that talking to girls, It’s really starting to depress me.

Well asa sunt si eu . Am avut pana si la Budapesta ocazii sa vorbesc cu o fata … fete care se uitau la mine si eu cucu… . Imediat ce am vazut acest post m-am gandit la un lucru si anume poate ca intr-adevar o sa ma ajute acest site insa imediat ce am vazut acest post , m-am cam razgandit in a way …

Hey you sound like me when I was 18 (11 yrs ago).

You can talk about anything really, for example, what they are reading, what they are doing after work/school, what was on TV last night… Unfortunately it wasn’t until I got to 23/24 that I lost my fear of talking to women.

OK so respectele mele pentru om ca plm si el inca mai are fobie sociala si plm imi pare bine ca a trecut peste etapa asta dar totusi nu prea a inteles care e faza si anume faptul ca stim cu totii despre ce sa vorbim doar ca parca nu putem … e ceva inexplicabil so nu prea ne ajuta daca ne zice cineva sa vorbim despre filme sau alte chestii . Totusi a fost interesant faptul ca am vazut cativa oameni ca mine si le-am vazut si fetele and to be honest , am senzatia ca noi parca aratam mai bine … . Era o tipa care chiar era prea tare .. nu era miss dar era mult mai decenta ca toate proastele de pe la noi (stiti la care ma refer…) si tipii la fel so i guess we’re special … lol . Anyway check that out daca vreti sa ma cunoasteti mai bine and yeah … well that’s about it .